I have three nationalities. Why can’t a man cook a meal for a woman and why can’t a woman open a door for a man? Just no. I contacted him via email i saw on his website. Men have been continually told we are as a gender abusers of women and are all potential rapists. In Russia, the sign of respect is learning things about each other for a year before the bed squeaks. he said she was just a lady he has some working project with and foolish of me i believed him.But on one faithful day i caught them red handed and that moment my heart stopped for a while as i bust into tears, because i really love him so much that i can do anything for him. Ridiculous! The better looking girls get the best treatment. He was in Canada through the Canada-France young professional government program. So if men fail to do so for you, maybe you just don’t spark this desire…. I totally With Irina agree with her call me very old fashion in that way but I think woman should not have to pay on the first the man should be the ones paying it has nothing to do with being a feminist or anything I just think its tradition and it’s not meant to be broken. In France men & women support each other, & really enjoy their differences. I think it’s because Russia doesn’t have that many feminists and women like to be treated as women, and actually still have respect for men (who have shown that they’re real men, they’ve been to the army after all). Please kindly move to Italy if you are unhappy with the state of Canada. It’s funny that you’re insulting her writing when your grammar and spelling is gross. To bring or do whatever the mother of his child needs. Not me of course for I’m married. Here here sister! The man continues to sing until the woman comes out of her home to meet him. Yes we are different physically and perhaps emotionally but that is the part of equality we are debating. It is how you educate your men. So, no matter which type of experience you are seeking, you will find suitable women online here to meet in no time at all. This was dumb. Food! They don’t like themselves. They are insanely politically correct too. Canadian men openly say that women asked for equal rights, so now they should be treated as men, which I absolutely disagree. P.S. And Ladies, let’s stop putting up with half assed effort here! For the majority of history women did “look like men” by your definitions. Men wouldn’t open the car door for their buddies, so why would they do it for you? So glad that finally someone just said it. I can say the article is pretty much bang on. In traditional Chinese culture, dating doesn’t involve sex. I’m more concerned about how the meal went and whether or not it was an experience I’d care to repeat. I'm insecure, timid, care way too much what others think about me, and am a people-pleaser. In Canada, I’d be better off just buying a wife since your salary determines the quality of woman you’re going to meet here. I’ve been stuck in the passenger seat of this car for nearly two weeks now because no man was there to open the car door for me :'(. Too bad u didn’t grow up in the USSR longer, might have brought u up with opened eyes. Don’t blame men for backing off on the chivalry; feminism has pretty well killed it for all women here. But let’s be proportionate here, Canadian men are limited too: miserable, narcissistic, swinging from aggressive to passive aggressive, stingy (let’s be honest here a man who is not generous is not a man) and the only Canadian men I know worth associating with are the French Canadian ones and the first generation Canadiana born from immigrants who cultured them to be more well rounded human beings overall. Princess looks, princess treatment. Learn about the Culture. There is nothing sexy about a guy holding broom and doing dishes… just like there is nothing sexy about a woman doing woodworking on barn door while at the same time man is doing dishes wearing an apron….. just try to imagine the situation and you will know how pathetic it looks. 2) Why is paying on the first date such a taboo in Canada? Fortunately, women are becoming more independent and behaving more American. Вы не правы, вот по-этому и никогда не поймёте русской души и русского народа. I do. I know you could do much better. I’m a man, and perhaps my bias would say that my fellow men aren’t as bad as the women. It has nothing to do with the way a woman looks, it’s the culture. Why can’t a woman open a door for man? He carries the heaviest bags for whomever he’s with because he likes feeling useful. Women are multi-faceted, just as men are, because we are humans: complex forms of life that go beyond our appearances. A relationship is 50/50. And to all the rude commentators, this is a blog and Irina is simply expressing her opinion as am I. Even if you drive to an Italian village, it’s breathtaking. Terrible article. EDIT: The more extroverted skip the texting bullshit. I learning thigs, what canedian woman before me did not learned to him! The woman goes through labour and it may take hours and hours. Here woman can shout out loud on a man or even slap him and he is expected to be quite and respectful BUT when a man shouts even once than everybody will call him aggressive and by any chance he slaps her for fucking or cheating (equivalent situation.. be creative) than he is on the way of his grave or worse. She created Shadiac to support her ideas in the comments. (with exception to Henry VIII), princes on the other hand were trained to be military leaders. Sheesh. So i should say a man should help out a woman in lifting weights and woman is the only one who should take care of their kids and taking maternity leave. This article will give you a rundown of Japan's unique dating culture as seen by a Japanese woman in her 20's. Also, you keep comparing America to Europe. Irina…It’s fun to read your post about comparison of canadian men and european men! I once went on a date with a girl and she argued the entire time who was going to pay for who I told I was going to pay for the both of us she did not want so I could not stomach it so I told her actually I am not hungry and guess what, she went and ordered me something just the same was a little mad but I did not want to insult her either but then finally near the end I actually got to pay for something so I was very content with that. c o m said came to pass. You don’t need to be “weak” to feel like a women, you can be assertive and strong as much as you like, you can carry all the groceries you like and still be feminine. Hez not going to get respected here… he still has to go broom and mop the floor anyways…. I’d be more interested to learn about YOUR culture and teach you a little about mine. “Big-bonned resistant woman” isn’t a woman, it’s an ogre. Possibly. - Irina Terehova Irina Terehova, Why The Fvck Are Women Hating On Femininity? Maybe you should show some respect. My husband told to me very early in our relationship…What I love about you..that you are feminine in all meanings, you are real woman, you dont want to be as CANEDIAN WOMENS equal….So that the important part of this message. Who are you to tell that this must be like this, and this must be like this! Ваше равенство – это яма в цивилизованном мире, вы все хотите стать равными марионетками без какой-либо индивидуальность. Much unlike yourself, I have been able to form complex ideas of what it means to be a woman, especially one in her mid 20s, living in a “modern” world, where inequality does sometimes fade. Italy is out of this world beautiful. i felt so rejected when i discovered that he was cheating on me. The system in NA is built so that differences between people, hate, ego, angry etc. There are women who like women, men who like men, those who like both. I met Moscow lawyers and business women more career oriented than many Quebec and north American women, Sorry I meant self-respect in the sense that they will not degrade themselves (or do what they find degrading in the anglosphere culture). Mutually taking care of each other is pretty cool”*****. A man needs to take care of his woman to feel like a man and make his woman feel like a woman, and a woman needs to act like a woman in order to feel like a woman and make his man feel like a man. As for point #3, just do what you feel like. Respecting his space, respecting his needs, having his back. Just like men can expect his girlfriend to take care of him when he’s sick , make him dinner frequently and dress up and look pretty for him. Coming from a masculine Canadian guy whom is educated and ambitious nothing is more attractive than a happy, cultured, adventurous, feminine , intelligent woman who hates small talk and skips right to computer science or the cosmos in a convo . Totally agree with you Gustavo. Yes, English isn’t my first language, you got that right. But I despise local deceitful people, who have nothing in their character except for taking advantage of everyone around, lying and being nasty. What is your role ? I say american for Canada is in the COntinent America and our culture is American., namely FreeSaxon from England. People hate USSR because they don’t understand anything in that regime. A moose? Anyway, hope to meet you while you are here with Dave and I enjoyed the video it is amazing and well done :). It seems that you NEVER read history books! If there are no folks from the Netherlands, that's basically how it goes here most of the time. Looking for romance in all the wrong places? So I understand men who don’t want to pay for women anymore. We’re same, but different, my friend. This “article” is seriously bad news! This is how we are brought up to be in Europe. So it’s great for me when dating I’m a rock star and I’m loved by tons but I have to honor and respect women and have true morals and values. Jut because somewhere some man opened a door for a woman and then all men followed suit to keep up doesn’t mean you are entitled to it. Get out there and make your pick already. It kind of makes sense because in India people date thinking there’s a 90% chance it’s forever. I love this! It doesn’t mean it’s wrong, myself I just avoid dating one. Bravo. (French is my mother tongue, so please excuse the level of written grammar). It’s plain to see that you have preconceived opinions and that you are holding on to them in fear of finding out that you’re not always right, but at least you could stop posting your trash in such a vulgar way. Canada has totally sabotaged this in about every way and has so many people confused about their gender which destroys the natural selection process and irritates mental health and its evident; Canada is a land of mediocre and political correctness that has destroyed this country from this inside out, it has killed traditional family values as well as our innovative engine as a country I sincerely feel bad for men in this country as society stones any man here for being ambitious , intellectual, masculine , cultured .. not only is there mental health effects but you also are causing endocrine dysfunctions.. low testosterone which is essentially the mans battery. And not even when I kicked them both out of the car I don’t think they understood what was wrong with their behaviour…. I'm laid back and get along with everyone. And so, you will finde in Canada some who are half men, who want you pay your bill, but my self I dont know anyone around our friends. Try a country boy . How are you even saying this, it doesn’t make sense to me. Is it because of the feminist movement? What Happened To 'Real' Men And Chivalry? Young Chinese women are usually under pressure … Not whether heavy lifting is done or not. It’s irrelevant inconsequential, superficial and unimportant. Find a husband and fulfill your dreams of popping out babies as your husband is the main provider. That way he recognizes that he will take care of her during pregnancy, childbirth, toddler years. From your photos it’s obvious that you rely on your looks for everything, because that’s all you have, so when it doesn’t work, you throw a tantrum. Guess what? while homosexuality is perfectly natural, matter of fact male heterosexuality is getting more and more criminalized. Women from this country are vastly diverse – both in terms of beauty and background. Nice, no? Still, though, women are either put on a pedastal or just used for the most part. No matter where you live in Canada, dating with EliteSingles can help you meet someone wonderful. I read through this garbage, Clearly you want attention and that’s all you want. The right hand can be a tad more useful here than just for putting two fingers deep in when you see one naked. please hurry up! So i had to delay the process to buy time for myself so as to figure out a way to get him back. you define your happiness and your mate adds to your happiness..not replacing it..i am italien and i think all women should be nourished like a flower .so open the door be kind even if the other person isnt.remember the day you stop nourishing her is the begining of the end. My wife treats me as such! There, almost all relationships formed organically from friendships, over time. I would like to say that I agreee with you fully Irina./ I’m a FreeSaxon , an American from Canada. (in general at least) If we look back at the nobility era, it was Queens and Princesses who were pampered and treated with the most respect. Because they want to take care of their children?????????????????? First and foremost I’m an American that’s lived in the Netherlands and there are few to no guys there that will dare to even buy you a drink! 3) I’m going to make a lot of feminists unhappy with this point – traditional roles of a man and a woman is what we all need to stick to. And in the end…I dont belive that there exist perfect people…so also my husband was not…but with my patience to learn him how to treat women, how to spoil hear, and so on…we are doing wounderfull! If by european men you’re talking about italian let me tell you than everything is done ONLY with the purpose of getting something back (sex). thank you for taking your time and writing such an elaborate response. The Russian culture is more conservative, one night stands are not as common as in North America in Russia (of course any Russian that travels will look for some fun, as for any culture). I am a Canadian but have lived abroad for some time now. If you feel like a women inside your head, you don’t need guys opening doors to know it, and if you’re a guy in your head, then you don’t need to carry packages to assert that. Non-Americans, what is dating culture like in your country? While the woman’s body get disfigured, it nourishes the baby while being inside of her and afterwords. Ranting and raving about girls paying for their own first dates , and opening their own doors . We need care and protection. Russian tradition with women: control them and maybe a beating here and there just as I know in old countries. Of course some journalists are good, but bad ones also exist. Since Brazil was initially colonized by Portugal and a lot of other European countries after that, we havea very similar culture. I hope you didn’t take pictures with them because they like to go around showing them to their friends and saying “i banged this chick” while you write blog posts about “how much better those man are, they open the door for me wow!”. I actually think Canadian guys have a great sense of humor and so what if he doesn’t hold the door a great sense of character goes a long way. i read all the comments every single thing makes sense. Don’t want to clean? Nicely put! Once again, these are obviously generalizations. Man don’t want to pay bill cuz why should he? My wife said she want me in the room and she was sitting right beside me… why a husband cant have an opinion about his wife’s decisions? Why women want to be like men here baffles me. 4. at the end of the dinner maybe go for a walk with her or if she needs to leave to go home accompany her to her car to make sure she is safe and this gives you a little more time to get more acquainted with each other and more time to warm up to each other. Maybe its also a new generation? Don’t get me wrong though, even if a woman is a CEO, she must still remember her role as a woman in the house. Why can’t a woman cook a meal and a man does the dishes, and a woman takes the trash out. Nice, no? Today there are no little girls walking in pyjamas. Much like yourself, I was born in Eastern Europe and grew up in Canada. And learn edicate and learn values. U can’t equate that with being chivalrous Not ALL European men are gentlemen just as much as not ALL North American men are assholes. See I was taught also when you take woman out for dinner your to The same holds true for woman though, if you can’t stand doing the household next to your job. This article and these comments are absolutely hilarious. This is a really good article actually. Australian here. Russian girls are cold but generally honest about their feelings, if they don’t like you they will pay for you on a date, stay cold the whole night, generally won’t open up. The reason for paternal leave is for the new father to take care of his family. You’re an idiot. Heavy Bags- again, not mentality, but politeness. A good point is a good point. UNTILL THEN YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED THIS WAY. Also it’s called a paternal leave. Therefore, you aren’t entitled, it’s just respectful for a man or even a woman for that matter, to open a door for you. If one wanted to be treated like a lady, then be a lady. I'm currently using coffee meets bagel as my dating app, but I'm using it casually. A few true marks of a man is aggressive tact, focus and decisiveness. Those who read a tad of their own history would know that the individuals of Semitic lineage prefer radical freedom of action over the less capable in order to assume prime positions worldwide. I will actively discourage my gorgeous younger sister from wasting her time with Canadian boys . They are just smarter not more courteous. For example, I’ve encountered more than a few times where a girl has a crush on a guy not present but with enough booze in her will hunt for the highest status male she can find in her current social gathering to hook up with. You repeat “In Europe” several times throughout your article, but from what you say, you visited one country. The man pays! God damn it Canada!! I do, thanks to JEsus! For the record, I am from southern France, lived in Canada for the majority of my life and spent every summer in France since I was about 6 years old. And Irina, I think you just need to keep looking, you just haven’t found the right guy yet. it is like a candle being lit in a sea of darkness, My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago. Their behavior is the outcome of how we women treated them. Looking for an old soul like myself. I would blame my location, the fact people just want attention/the chase, I would blame anything I could blame as long as I didn't have to blame myself. Canadians are used to things going wrong. Don’t go criticizing an entire nation because you feel like you somehow deserve special treatment because you were born with female genitalia. They’re like men wearing skirt. This is not only in Italy, try Lebanon, we treat you like a real princess . Toronto is a large multicultural city with a very active dating market, so you will definitely meet all kinds of women. Don’t worry Irina, I’ll grow up one day learning that there are more valuable things in life than the petty stuff u wrote! I've often wondered if he was deported for being friendly socially outgoing. Hi Irina, I recently shared the video of you and my friend Dave. Let’s first start by saying I’m Canadian male 25 y/o I do not date most Canadian women and normally stick to { Latinas, Greek, Italian, E.E’s} Why you may ask? Так держать! Couldn’t agree more. Gender roles in society are an antiquated concept as evidenced by the people who don’t identify as either. In higher orders and noble societies, mal-treatement of women is very rare. Brit here, its just pretty normal, you meet, you get their number, you text a little or a lot till you get the balls to ask them out. Dating for Marriage . I agree that in NA women believe they are strong as men, which is not true, they should be more feminine, but here comes the part with adjustments, we have to give time to people so that they will change in better. A guy can act like all the others and treat women like dudes, some women may want that, but ultimately if you like a woman, you should be treating her better than any other guy. Hugging and cheekkissing are pretty normal here when you meet each other. I’m sure these female body builders also want to feel like women and random acts of chivalry can certainly help them feel that way. What I’m really glad about, is that this post touched you to the point of taking time from your busy day and writing this comment. “Fvck Buddies” Is The Most Ridiculous Concept Ever Reinforced By Crazy Feminists, I Got A Breast And Butt Massage In Vietnam. Learn to accept criticism for once. While I would love to learn about his culture ( and vice versa) the main thing that I would hope that the both of us would do in our union is to be together through the thick and the thin. In case of ladies, well… any girl will be treated the way she allows to be treated. How people live in NA and how they live in Europe? I rather date a woman . You see if you click, and if it does a relationship occurs pretty quickly within a few weeks. 10 years ago I could only listen hip-hop and Latino music when I was going out. Stop lying man..It’s all about looks. Rich guys usually get the best looking ones. Those who like neither. But this post is not about that, it’s about two different mentalities: European and North-American. I live in Canada too and I’m from Europe, and I think you are just UNLUCKY girl! Anyway. I agree with you about all what you said.Great piece of writing. I am a woman by the way. You do realize that people exist outside of this hetero-normative view you have of the world, right? it’s POSTAMERICAN culture which is ANTIAMERICAN culture, which is namely COSMOPOLITAN CULTURE, which in turn can be philosophically understood as multinationalism culturalism which has driven out the True FreeSaxon culture of Canada. I loved this article and it is exactly what I stand by in my channel. Clearly you have some deep resentment to work out. Thank you for suggesting for me to move to Italy, I will definitely consider it. Greek dating websites help Greek people to get together and are useful for those who live and work abroad but still want to meet and marry someone from their own country. In Canada, that mix of douchebag and chivalrous does not exist. Stress: stress comes at you from every direction here this country has a tall poppy syndrome, Canadian culture does not encourage expression of emotions or expression of masculinity nor femininity just a mediocre blend too macho they say you’re a ass too feminine they say she’s a church girl you get this idea. Hair removal is a fairly MODERN choice, do you realize that? Allow me to explain. Puts things into perspective for them. If you wanted to be treated as an equal well I guess you know the answer. We don’t “need” to stick to traditional gender roles like this article says; we should do what we want in a relationship and since every relationship is different, adjust according to each partner’s expectations of it. I don’t think this makes men less manly, but rather, makes them feel like they are pleasing their woman. I want my 2 1/2 minutes back. But that’s not true, every part of the world is different and everyone can think the way they want. What are you freaking out about? Gestures of affection in couples are important, but I do not believe they should be according to gender, but rather to how you and your partner feel and your mutual talents. It’s not even bout heavy bags, it’s the whole attitude of Canadian women, who feel like they are waking up and trying to stand for their rights, while in fact all normal countries went thru this social development stage a 100 years ago… Canadian woman are manly looking, hockey playing, not well educated… They think about equality like if they want to become men, so stupid. This has to be the most bogus blog I’ve ever read. These are just small examples, obviously, there’s more to being a man than just carrying bags and opening doors. Речь вообще о женском менталитете, и есть мужской менталитет в Канаде тоже пошатнулся, то только от женского. On the upside, in many cases men are more likely to do all these nice gestures( such as door opening) if they feel the desire to be a gentleman, and that desire does not occur with every women thats out there. It’s such a turn on. Line 10: “Men and women are not equal.” Wanna know what I think? This is’nt ”How it is suppose to be”, you are saying what YOU want everything to be. You didn’t do anything special to deserve a meal, but it’s just nice, you see? Also, abrupt ending to an article. Jana, Gender roles go both ways. A frosty, cold-arse mirror. They do treat women as men, and that to me created many issues to women as they don’t feel safe and protected being around men, which is the reason why I perceive Canadian women as more mentally fragile in comparison with other Countries. Anyways, my main point was this; what you describe to be a desirable way for men to treat women (which I agree 100%) is not a European standard, but rather a general character trait of social-class. But He started changing ” for the worse ” he looked at me like a stranger and also treating the kids like total strangers. No one deserves to have a door opened for them, unless theres a 90 year old in a wheelchair or a woman whos pregnant/ has a baby carrage. The frail petite lady that’s as delicate as a newly blossomed rose, or the big bonned resistant women? He said he could destroy the entire thing he did but he wouldn’t do so as i can see how wrong i was by insulting his personality. Or are we just talking about Quebec + not-Quebec + immigrants? Also, having traveled in Europe extensively, I would strongly dispute your assertion that everybody there is one way and everybody in Canada is different. 1) But, no, in Canada men and women are considered to be equal. i just read about this post and all the comments, its nice to know all about this and i just want to say that woman is woman and man is a man its a choice to do good things in this world and my man is a Canadian man though we’re not yet meet in person but i feel that he’s a good man Good luck to me though (y). Just came back from Europe, I live in Canada. but another man and you’ll see that there are many a good’ ol’ FreeSaxon ready to Love you! Man raped her. To an outsider understanding this mating ritual might be quite dificult. Canadian, AMerican and Colombian. In fact no italian man helps old women for example. In my experience, only Scandinavian countries, Netherlands and in a way Finland have less traditional values. А у нас женщина – это ЖЕНЩИНА, и любим и уважаем их не смотря на физиологию и возраст. Watch this documentary if you’re curious to know more about our differences –VIDEO. At first I told myself it’s a scam, because i never believed of such. Stay far, far away from here. Only in Russia it is a taboo. he was no longer living with me and our kids. About who’s paying the first bill… Even if I believe the man should pay the first bill, the woman must, at least say that she want to pay hers.
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